Do not regret

Do you get filled with regrets frequently? I certainly do! In this post I'd like to speak out something that mostly we will do not consider.

Just for the moment, can you try giving yourself praise and thanks for regretting up so well? So, congratulate yourself on doing it so well. It really is quite the accomplishment to do it to the extent you do. Now, why not try congratulating yourself on being as flawed as you are? We have all got issues that we let hold us back. So, just for the moment, give yourself praise for being as wonderfully flawed as you are. You hate all of those flaws, right? Well, just give yourself praise and approval for holding onto that feeling of hatred and resistance for so long.

According to Katherine Mansfield, “Make it a rule of life never to regret and never to look back. Regret is an appalling waste of energy; you can't build on it; it's only for wallowing in.”

You've been doing wonderfully so far in your life. Don’t have fear for the future, and do not weep not for the past. Only a really strong person would hold on to a strong feeling like that for so long! And now, just for the moment, could you give yourself some approval for just being as perfect and as flawed as you are? May be just because it's a very smart thing to do.

Take this exercise seriously. Most people have never taken the time out to honestly give themselves approval for being both the perfect and flawed being they are. By praising your negative emotions, rather than attempting to suppress them - we feel so much better, and become more in harmony with the beautiful duality that life provides. Enjoy your day - and give yourself approval even if you don't! Our defects are just all right!

“I have no regrets in my life. I think that everything happens to you for a reason. The hard times that you go through build character, making you a much stronger person.” --Anonymous

In fact regrets provides us launch pads for new opportunities. After all, you're incredibly good at... Right? Of course you are!

Innovation

People play a role in the culture of society. Organizations need to consider the type of employees that can most effectively drive innovation. From a diverse range of research in psychology to management it has been found that a core of reasonably stable personality traits characterizes creative individuals.

Despite the interest in the field of innovation, much of the research evidence concerning management practices about innovation culture and creative climate remains unsystematic and subjective. Highly innovative ones behave as focused ones where as less innovative ones behave as traditional bureaucrats.

A select of few such points are shown in the block diagram.

What do you want to be?

To face an adversity by seeking the opportunity within it is a real great talent and blessing. Here I go with a wonderful quote from Socrates

"The way to gain a good reputation is to endeavor to be what you desire to appear."

Nice thought.
How many of us really try to appear a particular way?
How often do I try to appear all self-developed, and smart, and spiritual?
And how often is it all just a bit false?
Please again, read the quote: "The way to gain a good reputation is to endeavor to be what you desire to appear."
Just throw this set of questions on you:

1. What do you want to be?
2. What you really are?
3. And why don't you try to really be it?
4. How you wish others to be?

The real self of ours is neither what we think nor what people tell us to do but surely in a random fashion what we are known for.

Happy BYBS!

Gratitude in Attitude

According to a Research it has been suggested that Attitude of Gratitude may be beneficial to subjective emotional well-being.Maintain a ‘Gratitude Listing’.

Everyday write one thing in your life that you are grateful for. Try to introduce at least one new thing to be thankful for everyday.

Very soon you will start appreciating all that you ‘have’, and stop thinking about all that you ‘don’t have as yet’. The best part is that by being grateful for what you already have, you will start attracting all that you ‘want to have’. Yes, that is the magic and Power of Gratitude. Why don’t you invite this magic into your own lives with the beautiful lines of this wonderful poem?

Thank you God for world so sweet,

Thank you God for the food we eat,

Thank you God for the birds that sing,

Thank you God for everything...